I've got a Question...

Here is a space for you all to ask questions you might have about getting involved with a Fijian man. I speak from my own experience over the past 3 years and am happy to help answer the questions you have. 

You're all always welcome to email me at ivegotthetravelbug2011@hotmail.com with any questions you may have but I figure sharing it on here will also help others. I tell it like it is with no judgement. I'll say the stuff you may not want to hear but need to.

I've been where you are... I've had my fair share of doubt... I do this because I wish I had someone I could ask questions at the very beginning... You're definately not the only one feeling this way... Looking forward to having this as a safe space to share experiences and opinions and wishing you all a life of happiness, love, security and contentment <3

Lots of Love,

ivegotthetravelbug2011

We've made it to a year! <3

Ok! So it's been a long journey! Well worth it and still a long way to go :)

He's coming to Oz! He saved up for all the visa costs, etc and we're waiting for approval! Can't believe he could be here any day now!

I've learnt as much as I can learn by phone communication but can't wait for him to get here so we can start the next chapter in our relationship. By the next chapter I mean living in the same city again. Hahaha!

I'm missing him heaps and can't wait to see him. Over the months I've learnt where to give in and when to be stubborn. I've tested his patience and he's tested mine. I know when he's up to something. If he's lying or telling the truth.

We almost broke up a few months ago because he wasn't putting in any action to match his words but things change and we're happy as ever (minus the distance).

Looking forward to the next few
Months :)

If any I you ladies contemplating on being with fijian men, post me a comment and I'll answer as best as I can about my experiences.

Getting into a long distance relationship with a Fijian man is no easy road.

- You WILL have your bouts of insecurity.
- You will feel lonely and spend an hour on the phone just to have the company (nobody fills the void better than the person that loves you).
- You will have suspicions about why he's with you because it's such a hard road.
- You will be mesmerized the second you decide you'll give the relationship a shot.
- You will need to overcome culture differences as well as the normal changes a relationship goes through.

I've heard a lot of stories about these types of relationships going wrong but for me, so far so good! This is looking positive! :)

Best of luck to you all and drop a comment if you have any Q's :)